Be Careful: Abortion Advice From a Friend May Not Be Helpful

“My friends are telling me to abort, but I’m not ready.” 

As the one who’s pregnant, you are entitled to make your own decisions and stay in control of your future. No one can legally force you to make a pregnancy decision you disagree with.

It is normal for friends to share opinions and give advice, but an unexpected pregnancy is a different situation. Abortion advice from a friend is not necessarily the best source of information. Whatever pregnancy decision you make affects your life and well-being the most.

Setting boundaries with your friends and deciding your next steps can be challenging, but you aren’t alone. 

Life Line is here to listen. You can discuss your options in a non-judgmental, compassionate environment. Request a free and confidential appointment today.

“Should I Take Abortion Advice From a Friend?” Remember: This Is Your Pregnancy. You Are in Control.

Whether you value your friends’ opinions deeply or question their motives occasionally, navigating advice within a friendship can still be difficult. And with an unexpected pregnancy, it’s crucial to remember that you are in control.

Even if your friends say they are acting out of love or compassion, it’s important to remind yourself that whichever decision you make impacts you most. 

Your friends may want you to have an abortion because they wonder how you’ll finish school, remain in your relationship, or pursue your goals. They may even question how pregnancy will alter your friendship with them. These aren’t uncommon concerns, but having an abortion is a serious decision with side effects and risks. 

The Importance of Setting Boundaries

Speaking to your friends about boundaries is essential. Saying things like, “I know you’re worried about my future, but I must make this decision myself,” helps assert control over your situation. 

Additionally, sharing ways your friends can support you (like offering to grocery shop or visit your favorite restaurant together) can reintroduce normalcy into the friendship and make you feel less anxious. An unexpected pregnancy can be stressful, but you are still the person you’ve always been. 

Your Well-Being is the Priority.

Remember, no one can pressure you into making a specific pregnancy decision, and even though you may get abortion advice from a friend, this is your pregnancy and your decision to make. You deserve to learn about your options in a pressure-free environment. 

After we confirm your pregnancy through pregnancy testing and ultrasound, we can talk about your options. A nurse will answer any questions you have about abortion procedures, side effects, and risks so you can be sure you’re receiving accurate information. 

We’ll also discuss parenting and adoption. This is your pregnancy, and making a confident decision requires understanding every option and what it means for you.

Even if others have opinions about your pregnancy, yours is the one that matters most. Request a free and confidential appointment today to learn more. 

Life Line does not provide or refer for abortions. 

All abortion information sourced in this blog is based on accurate information at the time of writing.